CURTIS BIO
LLC Rise Above the Violence Inc. was formed due to the senseless murder of Curtis Israel Gray, a rising star student athlete and community advocate who invested much of his life helping youth in Flagler County, FL. His work in his beloved community was recognized by four Federal Government Agencies: Project Star, Project Aim, Project Phases & the Community Rehab of Jacksonville, FL.
It was unanimously decided by these agencies that he should be awarded the 2019 Prevention Champion Award due to his contributions in positive mental health and substance abuse prevention through a peer-to-peer support group he founded to assist his fellow students and friends. Unfortunately, Curtis was shot and killed on April 13th, 2019, before receiving the prestigious award in person. His mother, Carmen, was presented the plaque on her son’s behalf on May 29th, 2019. The presentation took place simultaneously as the first annual Curtis Israel Gray Track & Field Scholarship was launched by Flagler Palm Coast High School and presented by his mother Carmen Gray in his memory.
Curtis' dedication to his motto, “Be Great”, and his tireless contributions has gained national and international recognition. Additionally, a proclamation issued by the honorable Mayor David Alfin; deemed April 13th, as “Curtis Israel Gray Day” urging all citizens of Palm Coast, FL to rise above the violence.
Continue reading to gain a little glimpse into Curtis' Legacy:
In life there will be mountains and valleys, highs and lows, wins and loses; but what matters most is “how” you handle to defeat.
#64 Assisting with Food Pantry
It was during this time that Curtis experienced a season of winning, and winning and winning. Dr. Schalit led his team to incredible victories, they were the 2014 SJRFC Conference Champions (Undefeated). An excited Curtis was on a pinnacle all the way to the State Championship, in which he was very optimistic and stoked, however, for the first time, he experienced the stinging reality of defeat.
His mom listened to her son pour his heart out in anguish as he cried with his team-mates and coaches on the loss. Carmen consoled her son, praised him on making it to the State Championship and all the discipline and effort that gained him that opportunity, but she used that moment to teach him a very valuable life lesson about defeat. She admonished her son to understand that in life there will be mountains and valleys, highs and lows, wins and loses; but what matters most is “how” you handle to defeat.
#81 Curtis assisting with Young Readers book club
It was a lesson that for the rest of his career in sports made him the most valuable player.
Curtis would experience defeat and still applaud his teammates, still get back in the game with a winning attitude. His coaches marveled at his character in being able to be that athlete with great leadership skills and ability to be genuinely enthusiastic for other team mates’ victories even if his wasn’t as sweet.
The true art of winning is mastering how you lose. Curtis mother taught him the secret to always staying on top is in one’s “attitude”.
“Whatever he had to do to help the team, he did it. You don’t really find a lot of kids like that."
FPC's Curtis Gray competing in the triple jump at the district meet on April 9. File photo
Curtis Matanzas Triple Jump
Shawn Gordon, a distance runner and one of the Bulldogs’ senior leaders, didn’t know what to expect of the 6-foot, 160-pound, lanky athlete who stood before him. He was shocked by Curtis’ friendliness, his outgoing personality. By the end of the practice, Curtis was friends with most everyone on the team — and his new head coach was just as impressed. “He seemed eager to work hard and get better” Bulldogs coach David Halliday said. “Whatever I asked him to do he did, and he was always pushing his teammates to do better.”
FPC's Curtis Gray competing in the triple jump at the district meet on April 9, 2019. File photo
This season has to be for him. He wouldn’t want us to be grieving. He’d want us to keep going.
Curtis Matanzas Triple Jump
He sparked something in me that I hadn’t had in a while. It’s inspiring to work with an athlete who had that kind of desire.
“Before, I was doing it for me. Now, I’m doing it for him, and I can’t let him down. This season has to be for him. He wouldn’t want us to be grieving. He’d want us to keep going.”
Shawn Gordon, a distance runner and one of the Bulldogs’ senior leaders, didn’t know what to expect of the 6-foot, 160-pound, lanky athlete who stood before him. He was shocked by Curtis’ friendliness, his outgoing personality.
By the end of the practice, Curtis was friends with most everyone on the team — and his new head coach was just as impressed. “He seemed eager to work hard and get better,” Bulldogs coach David Halliday said. “Whatever I asked him to do he did, and he was always pushing his teammates to do better.”
Curtis competed in the 200-meter and 400-meter dashes for the Bulldogs this season — until February. Curtis got into a car crash. He wasn’t seriously injured, but it was enough to keep him from competing. Unable to work out, he fell behind and out of shape. But the coaching staff found out that Curtis had triple jumped as a sophomore at Matanzas. It was a weak spot for an otherwise talented squad. Eager to help his team in any way he could, he decided to try it. Curtis worked tirelessly with Bulldogs jumps coach Alex Giorgianni over the coming weeks, rediscovering his technique and raw athletic ability. And on March 9, Curtis leapt a season-best 42 feet and 5.25 inches to earn a silver medal at the Five Star Conference Championship. “I wish I had 100 kids like him,” Giorgianni said. “He sparked something in me that I hadn’t had in a while. It’s inspiring to work with an athlete who had that kind of desire.”
Curtis, like his teammates, had his sights set on reaching the state track meet on May 3 and 4 at the University of North Florida. But after finishing fifth at the 4A District 1 meet April 9, he just missed out on qualifying for regionals. Despite the sting of defeat, despite falling short of his goal, he showed up at the Bulldogs’ next practice, ready to encourage his teammates, to remind them of all their sacrifices and work, to remind them that although his season was over, theirs wasn’t. “He’s the ultimate team guy,” Giorgianni said. “Whatever he had to do to help the team, he did it. You don’t really find a lot of kids like that.
In 2015-2018, Curtis played Junior Varsity and Varsity with Matanzas High School Pirate Nation, during this time, Matanzas would have a 2 year winning streak under Coach Ripley and the new Principal, Dr. Earl Johnson, Jr,. Once again Curtis felt encouraged by the momentum. Between 2016 and 2018, Curtis ran Track & Field, and played football, during that time, he broke his right ankle at the growth plate and broke the inner bones of his left foot.
After a gruesome summer in 2018, under a new coach Don Mathews, Curtis was heralded as Most Improved Player by Coach Don and entered a new season as Offensive Lineman #8 and Team Captain. That year he suffered a torn hip flexor which caused him to sit out the remainder of the football season. It was during this time his mother Carmen told him to focus on getting well and concentrate on Track & Field to ensure a scholarship offer. He had already accomplished several wins but he wanted to excel so Curtis heeded the advice and decided that he would receive better training at Flagler Palm Coast High School, and decided to make the switch, January 2019.
Curtis made incredible strides in spite of the sustained injuries, earning a silver medal in the Five Star Conference track and field championships while representing FPC, recording a personal-best triple jump of 12.93 meters. He also competed in the 200-, 300- and 400-meter dashes, according to Milesplit He had sheer determination as he had throughout his sports endeavors.
Accredited for his congenial nature on and off the field, Curtis supported other athletes in their endeavors, often helping them with practices. providing encouragement and assistance where needed.
He didn’t just enjoy winning for himself, he was the consummate teammate, always enthusiastic about wins for every athlete whether it was on the Volleyball
Team, Lacrosse Team, Basketball Team, or junior leagues like Mad Dog, where he assisted younger players. Curtis partnered with another group of positive youth committed to helping athletes Rise to Greatness, a movement he promoted and believed in. He would often encourage his fellow classmates to “Just Be Great”
Amazing things were happening for the rising student athlete who had come to make a difference in the lives of Flagler County’s youth.
Curtis’ teammates and friends watched him pull himself out of the trauma of a split home, overcome gruesome injuries, change schools mid-stride to opt for a better academic and sports opportunity and began a peer-to-peer group chat to help other kids overcome challenges and grief.
He was nominated for his role as a Champ making the difference in his community.
This nomination was weighed across 50 states among other athletes.
He was vetted by four Federal Bureaus using criterion to measure his contribution to the community; it was unanimously decided that he would be the recipient of the prestigious 2019 Prevention Champ Award for his role in positive mental health and substance abuse prevention. Unfortunately the champ never received his plaque. It was awarded to his mother on his behalf as was his graduation diploma. Four short months after Curtis’ commitment to Just Be Great, a slogan he was fondly known for, the story became tragic resulting in Curtis’ death due to a violent senseless shooting. On May 29th, 2019, a portion of an article recalling the events was printed in the first annual Long Live Curtis Track & Field Scholarship Banquet highlighting the following:
For the Fallen: FPC’s Track Team honors slain teammate Curtis Gray
Flagler Palm Coast's track team is dedicating this season in honor of fallen teammate Curtis Gray, who was murdered early the morning of Saturday, April 13, 2019. Carmen Gray didn’t know what to think when her 18-year-old son suddenly announced that he wanted to transfer to Flagler Palm Coast High School. It seemed odd, out of place. Curtis Gray, who was midway through his senior year, had been at rival Matanzas High School for 3 1/2 years, where he played football and ran track for the Pirates. But she decided to trust her son. She knew he didn’t come to this conclusion easily. Curtis wanted to improve his grades and rededicate himself to running track, and after much personal reflection, he transferred to FPC before the start of the 2019 spring semester in January in what was ultimately “the best decision for him,” his mother said. Curtis was already familiar with some of the Bulldogs’ track team members. He and sprinter Jacob Miley, who transferred from Matanzas before the start of the fall semester this school year, had been friends since seventh grade. They had the same friend group. They played pickup football and basketball together. They hung out at each other’s houses and spent summers together. And they grew closer when the two enrolled at Matanzas their freshman year. But still, Curtis was the new kid.
Most of the team barely knew him, only catching glimpses of his wide, bright smile and smooth dance moves over Snapchat or at previous football games or track meets.
The Bulldogs are memorializing this season in honor of Curtis. The athletes who qualify for the state meet will wear a special jersey with Curtis’ initials on the back. The Florida High School Athletic Association recently approved it for competition. The track program is also selling a T-shirt that has a silhouette of Curtis jumping with angel wings and a halo along with the hashtag #LongLiveCurt on the back.
The shirt, designed by Emily Ung, costs $20, and the profits will go to the creation of the Curtis Gray Memorial Scholarship, which will be awarded to a senior on the track team at the program’s banquet after the season ends. “The kids and I wanted to be able to do something,” Halliday said. “We thought this would be more long lasting.” Now more than ever, the Bulldogs will be hunting for a state title. “I can see the goal better,” Jacob Miley said.
“Before, I was doing it for me. Now, I’m doing it for him, and I can’t let him down. This season has to be for him. He wouldn’t want us to be grieving. He’d want us to keep going.”
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Contact FPCHS
Track & Field Dept.
Coach Halliday
(386) 437-7540
Quote from Carmen Gray:
"Every parent hopes that they’re doing a good job in raising their children, but every now and again, a parent will be so blessed to have a child who leaves a legacy behind. I was already proud of him when he was alive. I’m extremely proud of him now.”